Internet Safety
> Online Dating

Online dating has become an increasingly popular way to meet other singles. Because of the possibilty of danger when meeting strangers, don't forget to use common sense when using these online dating services.

• Never reveal any personally identifiable information in your online dating profile, in your personal ads, or in your private e-mails to other singles. This information, or even a casual reference such as "I live in Medicine Hat", could be used maliciously.

• Use the communications tools provided by your dating service. Most offer online chat and private e-mail. Don't invite anyone to e-mail you at your regular address, at least until you get to know them better. Use your common sense.

• Use an anonymous email account like Hotmail or Yahoo when you begin getting to know new people. Don't rush into a relationship. Take the time to get to know the other person.

• Before meeting someone, request a photo. This will give you a good idea of the person's appearance. If you hear excuses about why they can't send you a photo, maybe it's time to look elsewhere.

• Talk on the phone. This can tell you what kind of communication skills the other person has. It's not a great idea to give out your home phone number. Try a cell phone or consider using Caller ID block to protect your privacy.

• When you are ready to meet someone in person for the first time, NEVER have them meet you at home or work. Arrange to meet them at a busy public place and you might even want to have a friend come with you, at least for the initial meeting. Carry a mobile phone in case you sense trouble.

• Remember: you are in control. No one should ever pressure you into revealing anything about yourself that you want to keep private. Anyone who does, is not respecting your boundaries, and is probably not worth contacting further.

Red Flags
Okay, you've gotten to know someone and are taking that big step. You're meeting in person. Beware of these types of behaviours:

• Displays of anger or intense frustration, or passive-aggressive behaviour.

• Attempts to pressure or control you.

• Abusive, demeaning, or disrespectful language or behaviour.

• Physically inappropriate, intimidating or aggressive actions.

• Inconsistent information about their job, interests, appearance, financial status, etc.

• Refuses to talk on the phone, even after you've established email relationship.

• Refuses to give you direct answers to direct questions.

• Appears quite different from online personality.

• Doesn't introduce you to friends, family or colleagues.

Whether you're using the internet, or meeting at local nightclubs or restaurants, dating is never risk-free. Use your common-sense to stay safe.

Reporting Internet Crime
If you receive any suspicious information over the internet that you want to bring to the attention of the Medicine Hat Police please send an e-mail message to "hatcybercop@medicinehat.ca"

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